Thursday, August 28, 2025

The Christening Dress

 

The "dress" 
My family has a christening dress- worn by most babies in our family - beginning with  my maternal grandmother, Anne Hughes McCarthy, 1912-1984.  The dress is simple and delicate and at this point, 113 years old. Which  means it is also a source of terror for every parent putting their child into it.   Most babies wear it for a brief moment, to appease the old ladies of the family  (a group to which I now state my belonging) and then it is returned to its storage box. 

The dress was a gift, from a family friend of the Hughes (Mom and Mickey may have more to this story?)  It was first worn at Our Lady of Mercy Church, in Port Chester New York on the 12th of January 1913

Heather and John putting Evelyn Anne Cheshire into the dress, 2011





Darren monitoring Evelyn's experience, 2011

The ritual of a christening is widely known, readings.. readings.. standing.. kneeling.. moms trying to keep a baby from crying... more kneeling. For some reason, our ceremonies also including older cousin's lurking around wondering what all the fuss is about - or perhaps, truthfully, making sure these addled adults don't mess anything up. 

Maggie checking on Baby Sam Mathis, 2009


A sampling of photos of the dress - in action - through the years - is below - please if you have them - send more;  I'd love to add to this collection. 


Corinne Elizabeth Cheshire, 2012

Darren William De Groff, 2003

Hannah Anne De Groff, 2001



The author (Amy Anne Begg De Groff) in the dress, 1968


All who have worn "the dress" .. so far.....



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